Loving, caring relationships are the key to a good life. A person’s emotional and spiritual well-being is intertwined with the relationships he or she creates. Most of us cannot imagine a life without someone to share our closest thoughts, dreams, and fears with. Yet the truth is that persons who are marginalized are frequently lonely, and the most significant disabling condition they face is their isolation.

It is imperative that this issue be addressed because the consequences of inaction are grave. Without family and friends, the person’s health suffers, choices are diminished, and vulnerability increases.

Most of us have informal social support networks – persons we count on and confide in; people who help us out. They are our relatives, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. Unfortunately, many marginalized persons don’t experience the support provided by relationships.

By using Tyze, and through the facilitation of a social support network, it is possible to address these challenges. The term “social support network” as used in this context refers to a group of committed men and women who are in a relationship with a person who is isolated and vulnerable by reason of disability, age, living arrangement, limited opportunities, or society’s perception. Each member of the network voluntarily forms a relationship with the person at the centre of the network and with every other member of the network. Each member offers support, advocacy, monitoring, and companionship.

Tyze, along with social support networks, has become a powerful tool for creating a safe and secure future for marginalized persons. They spell the difference between living on the edge of community and being actively included in it. They welcome and connect people to the heart of community. They provide families with peace of mind.

In 2002 and 2005, PLAN conducted social audits to determine, among other things, whether social support networks were making a difference in the lives of people at the centre of the networks, their families, and network members. These studies showed that networks have a positive impact on the lives of all involved. (To learn more, visit www.socialaudit.ca.)

Principles of social support network facilitation

Certain principles and concepts form the foundation upon which the social support network facilitation program is based. The following principles are the core values that guide the development of each and every network:

• Relationships are key to a good life.
• No issue precludes relationship.
• Successful networks are directed by individuals and/or families.
• Networks focus on contribution, and contribution equals citizenship.
• Everyone benefits from involvement in a network.